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Are you a financial planner, accountant or financial advisor? Do you buy into the social networking strategy of gaining acceptance into HNW circles, making friends and letting people know what you do? If the answer is yes, the first challenge is identifying and gaining entry into the right groups. How do you do it?
Gaining entry is complicated by the reality these circles are pretty good at keeping people out. They have had experience with people who join for self-serving reasons. People in the financial services industry have been assigned this label for years. So, how do you get in?
In many cases, there is a single credential that both qualifies you and gains you entry. Let us look at seven examples:
1. The special interest. You have a passion. You own a Ferrari. Maybe you collect wine. You do something that can be proved by pointing to something you own. People with a passion speak a language that is immediately recognized by fellow enthusiasts and is very difficult to fake.
The club for enthusiasts. You are surrounded by wealthy people who can determine if you have a legitimate interest after a few conversations. Your “platying piece” or collection is on display. You are accepted because you are for real. People with passions are eager to share their interest with others sharing the same passion, people who understand the language.
2. College alumni. You attended and graduated from the school. You earned your degree. Your GPA is irrelevant, especially if years have transpired. Your attendance can be verified in the alumni directory. You can raise your profile by joining your class reunion committee or writing for the newsletter. You share a bond with fellow graduates young and old.
The alumni association or brick and mortar club. You gain admission because you are a graduate. You have years of an experience shared with fellow graduates. Alumni love talking about “the good old days.” Even if the buildings are new, you still have a bond that allows you to reach out.
3. A professional credential. Many financial professionals are in their second career. From time to time you hear about law firms with “doctor-lawyers” on their staff. You might still maintain that professional credential. A financial advisor who qualified as a CPA might still keep their license current.
Local chapters of professional associations. If the people employed in your former profession are wealthy, they have client potential. Regardless of the answer, they have referral potential. There is the possibility of getting business accounts. There might be an endowment or foundation with funds suitable long term investment.
4. A private school. Many people consider local private schools as delivering a better education than the local public schools. This is often an expensive option, yet national celebrities often share the same logic. They feel the school is better at helping their child maintain a low profile and avoid media attention.
School sports and parent activities. If you have a child enrolled, you are expected to attend parent events and cheer on your child at school sports on weekends. This provides an ideal opportunity to interact with other wealthy parents.
5. Your spouse’s organization. Financial advisors tend to be self motivated. They make their own opportunities. If you are married to an equally high powered partner, they have social circles often formed as an offshoot of their professional life. If the executives at their company go out for dinner after a weekend meeting, spouses might be invited. That is your entry point.
Their social events or service organizations. In these cases, your spouse is the star. You are a supporting actor. There are plenty of other spouses like you in the same role. If these are all wealthy couples, you can get to know them better.
6. The collector circuit. Famous works of art are often in private collections. From time to time, the owners lend them out to museums. Dealers have these pieces in their stock from time to time. When a painting has been exhibited at a museum, it enhances it’s provenance, increasing it’s value. Collectors are both buyers and cellars. They are familiar faces on the auction circuit too.
The open wallet. It is unlikely the financial advisor will have a ten million dollar painting they are willing to send on national tour. They might be a major museum donor (at a smaller museum) and a frequent attendee at major international auctions held in your city. People assume financial advisors are wealthy or will be someday soon. This should get you attention and acceptance.
7. The charitable donor. Once you get involved in your community, you discover the higher your donation level to the art museum (or hospital), the more exclusive the invitations you receive. The groups are smaller, the food it better and the attendees are Ols Money or deep pocketed business owners.
The higher tier nonprofit donor category. You are writing big checks. You need to do it consistently. You will see the same faces over and over. You will get to know them.
There are ways to get into the most desirable social circles, the ones designed to keep people out. You often need the right credentials, patience and the ability to write checks over a sustained period.
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