I spend a lot of focus helping my clients protect their hard-earned assets from the reach of a frivolous lawsuit. The chance of such a lawsuit in the US is always a risk when a person with a nest egg is perceived as “rich” and someone who “could afford” to shell out a big bucks to make an unfounded lawsuit go away.
As devastating financially as a frivolous lawsuit may be to one’s wealth, it’s nowhere near what I consider the number-one potential destroyer of financial wealth—divorce.
This is especially true for older couples. A divorce later in life is far more impactful financially than one early in life, when there really isn’t much in the way of acquired wealth to split. When couples divorce in or close to retirement, each spouse typically faces a loss of 50% of their assets and annual income and a 50% increase in their expenses, the worst of both worlds.
As a general rule of thumb, retired couples that have been married for over 10 years or who are older than 50 can expect to split the assets, with each taking away 50%. That immediately halves the available income to each spouse. For example, take a fictional couple, both retired, who have jointly owned assets worth $2 million that produce an income of $60,000 a year. Once divorced, they will each have $1 million in assets that give each of them $30,000 a year.
Other income would also be split, with each spouse having to depend on their own Social Security and any separate pension income. In cases where one spouse has the majority of the annual income stream, it’s not unusual for a judge to require that alimony be paid to equal out the disparity.
All this would be fine financially if expenses would also decrease by 50% and lifestyle remained the same. That isn’t how it works. The biggest cost is the increase in housing. Now instead of “two living as cheaply as one” in a home or an apartment, there are two residences to support. That means two mortgage or rent payments, two sets of utility bills, cable/internet charges, and twice the maintenance upkeep. Travel is another item that becomes more expensive, as it’s no longer one hotel room or stateroom on a cruise. Altogether, my experience is that the cost of living increases 25% to 50%.
Assume that the couple above each receive $25,000 annually from Social Security, for a combined income of $50,000. Adding the $60,000 income from their investments gives them a total household income of $110,000. Let’s assume their federal and state tax liability would be $12,000, so they live on a net of $98,000.
Once divorced, their individual income falls to $55,000 each. However, now that they are single their marginal income tax brackets actually rise. It wouldn’t be unusual for their federal and state taxes as individual filers to be $7,000 each, leaving $48,000 on which to live.
Let’s assume their pre-divorce living expenses of $98,000 increase by only 25%, to $122,500. That means each of them, to maintain their previous lifestyle, will need $61,250, which is $13,250 more than their income. Put another way, they will need to cut their expenses by almost 22% to make ends meet. And that’s the best-case scenario. If costs increased by 50%, each would have to reduce expenses by 35%.
Consider what your anticipated retirement lifestyle would look like on 22% to 35% less income. The answer is not a pleasant picture of one’s golden years. This is why couples planning for retirement are wise to invest in their relationships as well as their portfolios.